Dare List

[Dare] to embrace new, sometimes caliente, experiences:


  • Date a younger man. [March – April 2011]
  • Online Dating [Aug 10 – Nov 10; Feb 2011]. Suffice to say, not my fave way to meet people.
  • Go Speed Dating [May 2014]
  • Do a pole dance or burlesque class. Do a photo shoot (lingerie or normal) [April 2016]
  • Meditate regularly.
  • Pick up a beautiful male stranger. [Jan 2015] Argentinian Soul Connection in Dominican Republic
  • Fall in love. for the first time. all in. [2017]


  • Travel somewhere by myself (because I’m afraid to)
  • Move out and live on my own [Feb 2014]
  • Learn to cook at least 3 new recipes (given my current relationship with the stove – this is a big deal) [2011]


  • Sing Karaoke. Live. (shower & car not included) [August 19, 2011]
  • Party at a gay night club – [March 2011]
  • Visit a male strip club [Sept 2010]. I think Hilarious sums it up. I won’t be going again without a legit alibi.
  • Go Camping (with a tent. For min 1 night, 2 days) [July 2017]
  • Do a Trapeze type activity [Sept 17, 2011]
  • Spend a night in a hostel (outside comfort zone)
  • Visit this shortlist: Portugal [June 2011], Croatia [Sept 2012], Turkey, Thailand and Bali
  • Go on a hot air balloon ride (no desire to sky dive and it is symbolic)
  • Zip Line / Parasail / Snorkel


  • Perform in a play or musical theatre number again
  • Complete a draft of my memoir book idea
  • Volunteer for a cause in a major way (not just money)

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