About Moi

I realized that I was making choices to achieve one of 2 things: a) avoid failure or b) live up to someone else’s expectation of me (Hi Mom).  After pouring tons of effort and energy into projects that weren’t meaningful to me (business school, financial services marketing etc) I lost my mojo and motivation.

It was Jan 2011, while in between jobs, that I had an epiphany to connect my childhood dream of acting and love for pop culture into…(drum roll please) a career as a screenwriter / producer of movies and TV (think 500 Days of Summer, One Week or New Girl).

With zero related experience or education, this is the biggest challenge ever! But I’ve never backed down from one and neither should you. I’ll be sharing:

  • Inspiration to take risks and chase dreams
  • Book and movie reviews = amazing storytelling
  • Tips and interviews to assist fellow screenwriters & entertainment industry seekers
  • Other 20 something concerns that we can all sing kumbaya about (I’ve always loved to overshare/connect/embarrass myself).   

PS Follow me on Twitter, add me to facebook or email me at daremytruth [at] gmail [dot] com because we should be friends, or at the very least, social media acquaintances.

Me + TV/Films = A Love Story

As an only child who didn’t have a heck of a lot of friends, TV and movie characters became my social circle. I’d watch Cinderella on repeat, the Care Bears, Art Attack you name it. As an awkward looking adolescent, I was drawn to transformation / revenge of the nerd stories. They made me feel less alone and gave me hope. Hello Romy & Michelle’s High School Reunion, Clueless, She’s All That and other rom coms. I watched Melrose Place and Beverly Hills with mild understanding, cheered Buffy on, bonded with my mom over Gilmore Girls and grew up with Dawson and the gang. Seinfield, Cory & Topanga, Rachel & Ross, French Prince, Urkel and every other sitcom helped me escape with laughter.  I thought: “I want to do that!” What love story are you working on?  

More narcissistic information (are we best friends yet?):

  • Passions: books, movies, music, writing, decorating, inspiration, the internet
  • Likes: striking items off a TO DO list, ideas, serendipity, sunny days, car singing, chai tea, the 80′s/90′s
  • Recent Reads: One Day, The Alchemist, Your Voice in My Head, The Lost Girls,
  • Pet peeves: pointless policies, traffic, waiting for appointments, pimples (esp before dates)
  • Role Models: Tina Fey, Kristin Wiig, Jennifer Westfeldt
  • Favourite City: Paris (je t’aime!)

Guest Posts + Other Writing Work:

10 Responses to About Moi
  1. sandyb
    December 2, 2010 | 9:25 pm

    LOVE LOVE LOVE that you finally started this! Keep it up.. write often, even if you think no one is watching…(but someone always is girl…)

    x

    • Dare My Truth
      December 3, 2010 | 9:19 pm

      Hi Sandy, thanks so much for the message. It means a lot!

  2. Lisa Canning
    December 5, 2010 | 8:45 pm

    LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE!

    • Dare My Truth
      December 28, 2010 | 11:22 pm

      Thanks Lisa. Your encouragement definitely kept me going as I was stalling on launching this bad boy. Love yours too!

  3. Helen garda (Lisa's sister)
    December 28, 2010 | 12:47 am

    Hi Vanessa, absolutely love what u r doing with your blogs. I have recently been contiplating starting one myself (about fitness/wellness). Lisa suggested I check out yours, maybe it would end my contiplating!

    • Dare My Truth
      December 28, 2010 | 11:21 pm

      Hey Helen! Thanks for checking me out. Lisa mentioned the amazing steps you’ve taken in the last couple of years and it is great that you are doing what you love. We should talk about the blog thing, you need to understand why you are doing it and what value you could provide to others and study similar blogs to get a feel for what is already out there. And decide if you should do writing or doing videos (or both) based on your strengths.

  4. Vidya Sury
    January 26, 2011 | 5:38 am

    Love your blog. Came over from your guest post at Everyday Bright – and so glad I did. I love your profile (just because I am unconventional and follow my dreams in spite of the daily blah blah?? :-D )

    Really looking forward to hanging around here a lot.

    • Vanessa
      January 26, 2011 | 12:06 pm

      Hi welcome! Thanks so much for coming by and giving some love. Good on you for following your dreams. Now that I will be working full time again I need to make sure I make time for mine still. Hope to have you hanging around – will check yours out tonight.

  5. Laura Kimball
    February 7, 2011 | 9:04 pm

    Just want to say it’s a pleasure to meet you! And I LOVE how you outlined who you are, why you started this blog, and why we should care — brilliant. I may just borrow that…

    In regards to your passion for screenwriting, I took a screenwriting class in college. It’s not my style, but this book was invaluable to me. It was written by my professor and could be a good resource for you: “Practical Screenwriting” by Charles Deemer http://www.amazon.com/Practical-Screenwriting-Charles-Deemer/dp/1585101281

    Also found this list of resources: http://www.pcez.com/~cdeemer/CharlesDeemer/www.geocities.com/cdeemer/Screen.htm

    Best of luck!

    • Vanessa
      February 8, 2011 | 1:25 am

      Hi Laura – great to meet you too! I’ve been following your blog a bit silently for a while :) Feel free to borrow!
      Thanks for the resources on screenwriting. I will check it out – have a couple other books on the go. Looks like we got hired in and around the same time too – coincidence!

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